A question - how do you define sex?
I read here pretty often that people say, we don't have sex. But they do everything except penetration. For me it doesn't make a difference if you have oral sex or petting or intercourse, it is all the same. SEX :D
It kind of makes me laugh when people claim they "save" themselves for marriage, but do all the other things. And just because a woman still has her hymen because she wasn't penetrated, doesn't make her a virgin. Well, technically it does, ok.
You can be the biggest slut in the world and go as a "virgin" into marriage, this doesn't make any sense.
Now I am not for "saving it", not at all. But I think if someone claims that and has sex in all other variations, it is bigot.
What do you think?