"Cheating" Ex wants me back.....
hey all
been a while since I've posted.
I was with a guy for about 8 months - I'm 24, he's 34. All of a sudden he started acting a little shady/distant...he was having work problems.
One Saturday morning he told me he was busy with a few things - I happen to see him (no joke) walking on the coast with anohter woman (quite a bit older than me) and her dog. I flipped out and approached - he said there's nothing going on - he had just been made redundant the day before, the girl works in recruitment/human resources and he was asking for advice. Turns out she's married and does work for the company he said in recruitment.
Still, he lied to me, and I still don't believe his story - get the niggling feeling he was cheating?????
He then said he needed a break to sort himself out and was going to Europe - turns out he never went.
So, given the above, all the lies, I told him where to go and we're over.
In the past couple of months I've found out he was in some serious family/criminal trouble - obviously didn't want to tell me.
Just last week he sends a massive bouquet of flowers to my house (I still live at home with my parents) and a hand-written letter saying he loves me, misses me, has so much to explain but doesn't know where to start
I've ignored it - threw out the flowers - but its so hard. I loved this guy, we had spoken about marriage etc, just don't know what to do.