we tried lubricant but that doesn't work half of the times. The only times that it doesn't hurt is when i am super wet and horny..sometimes we have to stop quicker than we would like because i cant take the pain. sometimes it hurts for days. i don't know if we need to try a different lubricant or maybe i just need to do some yoga and stretch my vagina??? :sad2: am i letting him down? guys would you leave your girl for that?