Many would say I'm retarded, others auitistic when I manage these things :)
Let me tell you something that is semi-typical for me. Im at a party, I'm being myself, chilling relaxing socializing. Somewhere as it gets alittle late a girl sits down next to me and starts talking to me. I can immediately tell she's interested because she put away her phone and faced me directly while asking questions to get to know me. ^^. I give her my usual medicine, deep voice, slowly talking while maintaining strong eyecontact. She was goodlooking. Pretty soon she asks me if I want a smoke. I say no, but I could go outside. At this point it's on for sure. What do you think happens now?
I FREAK out. Im like "wtf do I do". Jumping for straws on what to do im like "wanna take a walk?". This just makes things worse because now I'm alone with her and I feel expectations on myself. Before you know it I throw her into a pile of snow and rub it in her face just because I'm so nervous. rofl.
I'd rather you don't flame me, just tell me how could I have played the situations differently. Maybe not put so much pressure on myself to make moves and let her make the moves? Will she EVER make the move?
