Another problem with my girlfriend.. Getting very fed up now.
Hey everyone, I posted on here a few times about some problems with my girlfriend. After tonight, I may have to call it quits. The bad behaviors just keep escalating to no end and I'm sick of it.
So we had plans to go see a movie with some friends once I got out of work. The movie began at 11 and I was getting out at 10. It takes about 10 to 15 minutes to get to the movie theater, and one of my co-workers needed a ride home. I text my girlfriend and say "Hey I'm giving one of my co-workers a ride home, I'll be at my house in a little bit." (her and my friends were meeting me at my house)
So we close up shop and I'm driving my co-worker to her house, and I drive by my friends and girlfriend in the other car. They beep at me, and I wave at them. I drop off my co-worker at her house, then pull out my phone to call up my girlfriend. Well I notice a text message from her saying the following...
"You're driving some chick home? You keep screwing up this same date. You better not be late. I think I'm going to cry" (We were supposed to see the movie last night but I was stuck late at work and we missed the showing)
I received this text message about 5 minutes after I sent her the original driving my co-worker home text. Now, I have a hunch that I probably would have never received this if my co-worker just happened to be male. I tried to call her up but she wouldn't even pick up the phone, so I called my friend who she was in the car with. At this point, I didn't even want to meet up.. But I all ready made plans so I wasn't just going to flake last minute. I confront my girlfriend on how I think she's being ridiculous and she just says...
"Well it seems kind of fishy cause you didn't say she was a girl"
I'm sick of this nonsense.. She's trying to make me feel guilty for giving this girl a ride home, rather than saying "no" so she has to walk across town in the cold. In the past, she has done things that have clearly demonstrated having a lack of boundaries such as rubbing sexual arousal gel on my friends nipples at a party.
Then later on in the evening, one of my friends invited us to a frat party tomorrow night. I can't go because I have to work, but my girlfriend said "Oh I want to go!".. My girlfriend doesn't like parties too much, especially frat parties. I feel like she just did this to rub it in my face and see me get jealous, I decided not to play in to the game and just said "Cool, I have to close tomorrow night so I can't make, sounds fun though".
I just want a general consensus.. Based on my beliefs and principles, I feel that I am not in the wrong whatsoever here. I have done absolutely NOTHING in the past that would even have her consider that I am a cheater.. We went back to my place to have sex later tonight, but something just wasn't ticking. I just couldn't do it. I need to stop giving in to this bad behavior because it's just never going to end.