Any Hope for an Ugly Chick?
Hey guys!
I have a major problem attracting guys. I'm 25 years old, and while I've had a couple of boyfriends, I've always gotten them because of my personality and nerdy interests. None of my boyfriends have ever really complimented my looks-the best I get is the occasional "cute." My last ex even told me that his ex, his best friend, my friend, and an old crush of his were all hotter than me.
Even when I put on make-up and try to dress up, I never get hit on. If I try to flirt with drunk guys, they just assume I'm joking around, or they ask me to set them up with my hot friends.
I'm kind of at my wits' end with what to do. I want to actually find a guy who thinks I'm the hottest girl, who actually enjoys my looks and doesn't just put up with them because I charmed him with my personality.
However, as a girl, I always hear that guys are very "visual," and that they'd rather go after a hot chick with a decent personality. I think the only reason my exes dated me were because they were a little desperate.
So guys... as an ugly girl, am I doomed to always being in the friend zone, or constantly having to fight hotter girls for male attention? Is there any lasting hope for an ugly chick?