Hi-
I have a dilemma and I would like to know what others would do. The situation is this: married 12 years, have 2 kids (7 and 9), wife recently told me that she's never been attracted to me, she had been hoping that this would get better because she likes me so much as a person, but she has now concluded that it's not going to get better and she wants to never have sex with me again, but is OK staying together. I am a child of divorced parents and have always promised myself I wouldn't do that to my kids. On the other hand, I am really not happy about the idea of never having sex again.
So, what would you do?
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PS I am 40, wife is 39.