What do you typically fight about?
I posted a thread like this before, but no one responded to it.
I'm curious as to what you and your SO fight about? Do you pick fights? Do you think you put up with too much BS?
Are you the type to let things stew until it explodes, or do you talk about everything?
I'm curious :)
Me: I don't pick fights. I don't scream or yell hysterically. My father used to argue with me this way and it resulted in a lot of emotional damage and hurt. Typically, I'll think things through before I talk to my SO about them. This gives me a better handle on my emotions and ensures the outcome I want.
I don't have the need to feel right all the time. My goal with arguments is to find a mutually beneficial goal for the two of us because our relationship is the greater good. I am working toward trying to solidify my bond with this person, not cause a rift or seeking to put myself on a pedestal.
So, give me your thoughts, please.