i was in the same situation that you were in. my gf suffered from BP too. she would break up with me for no reason when she was depressed. and i would be the one to get hurt. i was there for her no matter what and now, she acts like i wasnt. we are broken up for good now b/c somethings in the relationship can be repaired b/c of something that she did. but i have come to realize, why want to be with someone that is just going to break up with you over and over and you be there for them. it took me around 2 weeks to come to this conclusion and see that i am better off. hopefully this person can realize what star you are in her life and want to be with you. she is the one that has to realize this and nothing you can do to make her mind change. by you getting back with her, you would be doing yourself a disservice b/c you know what she is going to do in the end, breakup. it took me a long time to realize this and i am glad that i did. my ex gf texted me last night and said that she missed and loved me, but there is no way i am getting back into that drama with her. do yourself a favor and find someone else that makes you happy. i know it hurts and what you are going through, but once you realize that you are better off w/o her, you will feel much better. you cant worry about her, you have done all that you can do by being there for her when she was in the hospital. good luck