Never had a girlfriend, help?
Hi, first post here.
Quick background; I'm a 19 y/o guy, going into second year of university, I play fairly regularly in a band back home, yet I've never had a girlfriend (or even come close).
Though I'm not overly vein/confident, I'd consider myself to be above average looking (but I've only got myself to back me up on this), yet I see very little female attention on nights out, however this might be due to my reluctance to interact with girls who I find attractive (if I don't have a crush on a girl I can talk to them just fine).
Instagram is my main form of social media, and I often come across girls who I'd consider 'my type' (i.e. not overly done up with makeup and with a similar taste in music/films). However, if I see a girl's post with 60, 80, 100+ likes I immediately think I have no chance with her and feel as though she's somehow already rejected me without knowing me.
Basically I'm asking for some general advice on what I can do to better my chances of getting a girlfriend in the future. I'm always on the look for someone interesting, but I'm not the kind of person to get a girlfriend for the sake of having one, I want someone who's interested in me as much as I am in them.
Anyway, thanks in advance.