they told me to

not to much to say im here to either save my relationship or myself. I am just another heartbroken person that would love for it to work out.

huh?? who told you to what?? and that's what you get for not using your head and taking other people's advice and peeking into the introduction section.

raverboy

ya this is the introduction they site told me to do so so hence, i did with the large amount of posts you have i would have thought you would have realized that i have not decided how to bring up my own problem. further more what good would an introduction do. None the less thanks for the warm reception. lmao

Is it really down to either you or the relationship? Is the relationship killing you?

oh well thank you Giga it of course can be wonnderful. On the other hand it can be devistating. Should i be posting this somewhere other than the intro blog...oh and illusion, just out if inquisition would you be refering to myself as "raverboy" or is that a snazy way of signing off. I wonder how many are judged without casting judgement

Raverboy is illusional's nickname. I believe he (illusional) was referring to the title of your thread. It is a little illogical considering the content of your first post, but I figured you were probably having auditory hallucinations.

welcome anyway.

well after reading through a couple of other threads i see that this person seems to be helpfull maybe a bit course in tounge or rather type but good willed anyhow. Honest i didnt realize anyone would actualy look to this thread. It is unusual to take the time to read the newbe stuff. I really would like to get on with the advice part though.