He keeps reiterating the fact that he doesnt want me to leave him, and hes afraid im going to...so if thats the case, why doesnt he just leave? he knows I will allow him to have time with his daughter, because thats his right. Ive told him that if he wants to leave then he can...but he's had 4 years to figure out if he wants to be with me or not. It isnt fair to me to make me miserable...but if I leave, I prove him right. I think hes trying to test my patience and see how much I will put up with. It really hurts me that as the mother of his child, he has such little regard for how I feel.