From full control to no control - what went wrong?

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22-08-11, 09:09 AM
Taiyed

From full control to no control - what went wrong?

Hey... I'm a 43 year old man. For most of my adult life, I've had the luxury of being able to completely control when I ejaculate. My philosophy has always been to wait for her to either get there, or she gives me the green light and lets me explode. I'm typically good for as many minutes as I need to be (30 is no problem).

Then - out of now where, I basically turned into a 1 minute guy. I can't figure it out. My SO and I have had some serious relationship problems in the past few months, and that's the only thing I can think of that is different. She is super sexy, but always has been.

Any thoughts or advice ?????

Thanks!
22-08-11, 12:26 PM
Vanity

As a 17 year old virgin, I don't know a ton about sex. However, as an aspiring doctor I do know a bit about anatomy and health. You are now hitting middle age, and it is known that as our age increases, our sexual capabilities decrease, especially in men. Why do you think there are so many ads for Viagra? This is a sad, but inevitable part of getting older.

Maybe this article will help.

[url=http://men.webmd.com/guide/overcoming-ejaculation-problems]Overcoming Ejaculation Problems: Delayed, Premature, and Retrograde Ejaculation[/url]
22-08-11, 12:45 PM
vashti

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Originally Posted by Vanity [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

As a 17 year old virgin, I don't know a ton about sex. However, as an aspiring doctor I do know a bit about anatomy and health. You are now hitting middle age, and it is known that as our age increases, our sexual capabilities decrease, especially in men. Why do you think there are so many ads for Viagra? This is a sad, but inevitable part of getting older.

Maybe this article will help.

[url=http://men.webmd.com/guide/overcoming-ejaculation-problems]Overcoming Ejaculation Problems: Delayed, Premature, and Retrograde Ejaculation[/url]

Hah! Back to school, little girl! Sexual talent doesn't diminish with age, but ability to achieve an erection may. However, his problem isn't in getting the erection; it's ejaculating too quickly.

Taiyed - I believe this is most likely due to your relationship problems, and your anxiety over it is also contributing. Fix your relationship, and things will likely improve.
22-08-11, 01:04 PM
Vanity

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Hah! Back to school, little girl!

Yeah yeah, I did mention my knowledge of sex is very small lol.
22-08-11, 02:07 PM
Mathias

Talk to an actual doctor. That's the obvious next step.
22-08-11, 02:42 PM
HeartIsAching

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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Hah! Back to school, little girl! Sexual talent doesn't diminish with age, but ability to achieve an erection may. However, his problem isn't in getting the erection; it's ejaculating too quickly.

Taiyed - I believe this is most likely due to your relationship problems, and your anxiety over it is also contributing. Fix your relationship, and things will likely improve.

^^^this^^^