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Okay a simple one here.
I am in a distance Relationship that is in the main conducted via email but we have met.
My question is how much contact is too much and how much is too little? My G/F and I write to each other every day and have done for almost a year. At the start we had more contact but now its less but still at least two emails a day. I'm not sure if I should worry about the slow down or take it as normal?
Thanks
K
the danger with any relationship is if you spill too much info there's nothing left to figure out. Imagine this relationship of yours as a 10,000 piece jigsaw puzzle for both of you, and the puzzle is the other person. Is she almost 100% finished with the puzzle? If she is and you aren't in physical proximity to yield the benefits that come with that then the slowing down could in fact be a sign of apathy or decreased interest.
Even with girls I'm actively pursuing I don't talk to them more than once every couple of days or once a week because I'm busy doing other things.