Is he just not interested?
I met a guy who I really like a couple of months ago. We really seemed to hit it off and he seemed to like me, wanted to chat every day and seemed keen to see me. We only went on 4 dates, as he has a busy job and our schedules don't match well. But I thought we could make it work if we liked each other enough. Suddenly he was offered a job at the other end of the country, and soon after he slowed contact eventually stopping. I was pretty hurt as he didn't give me any explanation,just went cold.
I let it go, and four weeks later, I got a message from him, saying that he owed me an explanation, he thought he'd be moving away and it made sense to him to ignore me instead of stringing me along and that he was sorry. I later found a mutual friend had a few words with him that prompted this.
I replied that I'd found it confusing, and he could have told me what he was thinking cos I'd have understood, instead of feeling is done something wrong. He didn't respond but when I asked him if he was still moving, he said no but now he may be moving even further away, overseas. The conversation carried on a little and tailed off, I didn't know if I should seem too keen to talk after what's been said ( or not) .
Do you think I said the right thing and handled it ok, or should I have tried to talk to him more? The thing is I really like him and don't want to lose touch. But it seems he's telling me he's not interested? Even though he got back in touch? I just feel a little confused :/