Playing with fire or friendship? help me understand this man
Hello,
I have developed feelings for a man and I believe it s the same from his side.
We both know we like each other..secretly..he is making his best to see me everyday (we work in the same place but different departments, sometimes different hours, depending on schedule) when I am not working in the morning he would pop in with an excuse in the afternoon ad so on. He recently told me he is happy I am there and that I make his day special. Anyway..as you might guess already there is a problem...he is married and older ( over 50 ) and I am in a long therm relationship and I am younger ( 27 ).. I don't flirt with him, we just talk very short. Although I tried to make him talk about his family he never mentions his wife, he always talks just about himself alone. The only clue I have about him being married is his ring. He is been following me like this for couple of months, coming everyday to make a small talk, friendly..even on Christmas he gave me some heart chocolates... I kind of got attached to him. I got a bit obsessed because of his this everyday visits and when he is not coming I wonder what's going on- sometimes he even comes 2 times to see me. I didn't have the courage to ask him what this is all about but meanwhile I kind of developed some sort of attachment or feelings for him..I know it's really wrong and I am feeling guilty but in the same time I got so used to wait for him to come everyday....I have no clue what he is up to..also I feel ashamed to ever mention to him that this is getting to much and I start having feelings..so can you please help me to understand what he is up to? Is he just obsessed to see me? I need some men opinions please....