What does this girl want from me!? (girls please)
So theres this girl i like. We were friends for a few months and i developed feelings for her. She literally showed every sign that she was into me. She literally got my number from some random person and started texting me. Always said hi to me, was flirty, and she would always focus all of her attention on me. She gave me waaay more attention then any of her other friends and guy friends when i was around. So i go off to college and i realized i should probably tell her how i feel. When i do, she tells me she just wants to be friends. I was totally bewildered, she was always the one who initiated everything and asked me to hangout all the time. She was the one who randomly hooked up with me at a concert. So i was drunk one night and she texted me and i basically told her off for leading me on for so long, but it was a little harsh so i ended up apologizing. We decided to take a break and not talk for a while.
I tried texting her to get things the way they were before when we were friends but she never answered. Then one day she texts me apologizing for leading me on for so long and she understood why i was so mad. Now we continue to talk regularly and she ended up telling me about how she still likes her ex and was asking me for advice. ( i know, clear friendzone sign)
When i got home for break she was literally begging me to hangout with her. She wanted me to hangout with her friends at the mall but i said no because i already went earlier. Then she starts begging me for like 2 hours to go and literally sounds like shes on the brink of tears. She even said you can come pick me up ill leave my friends and we can go do whatever you want. I still do not want to go and then her friend calls me and tries to convince me to pick her up saying how much she misses me etc. I felt really bad so the next day we hungout just the two of us for like 4 hours. i can tell she gets a little jealous of the girls i hangout with in college because she is always mocking their appearance when they are totally good looking girls. I just find it so hard to believe that she could want to spend so much time with me and miss me so much and not feel anything more than friends. My guess is that she still cannot get over her ex. I guess my question is...do you think i have any shot with her? All my friends are convinced she likes me but how do i get her to get over her ex? I have stopped being there for her all the time and it seems to be working pretty good. I have moved on, but i will always still have feelings for her cause shes really special to me. I'm starting to think that i was just never really aggressive enough in pursueing her and i actually sort of treated her as a friend unintentionally.
