SO girls are interested but then NOT after a day?
Ok so I guess I should explain a bit. Basically since I have been single it goes like this. I go out with friends (bar, party, whatever) and every now and then meet girls that express interest in me. Not just a little interest, usually a whole lot. Im kinda shy so usually they are the ones expressing interest in me and are sometimes very vocal about what they think. I would say 10 girls since I have been single, I have met, had a great night with, got along great, exchanged numbers and then dropped like I dont exist. So what does it take to actually snag a girl? I just find it odd so maybe you girls can help me figure out why a girls are VERY interested in me one night and then completely uninterested the next.
Ok I do realize that bars and parties are not the best place to meet quality women but when your in my shoes, there isnt much better places to really meet women. I work for a small company with mostly older people (im 25) and I dont really have any extra curricular activities other than hanging out with my friends and taking care of my dog. I just graduated last year and it was much much easier to build a good relationship with a girl because you could get to know them, ask them out, date a bit and then start a lasting friendship/relationship. I dont THINK im ugly. In fact I often hear the exact opposite and usually by the same girls that diss me. Id be happy to attach a pic if you think my looks may have something to do with it but I doubt it since those same girls are usually the ones that go on about how "hot, cute, sweet, sexy" I am. NOT MY WORDS so dont hate. Only repeating what I have heard so dont think Im cocky at all. Im very modest about myself. I will say my hight is only 5'6" and yes I am kinda short but dont you think a girl would notice that imediately?
So what sparked this this thread was really the last girl I met. I really liked this one and hoped things would be different this time around but I guess not. I was out with my roomate at a local tavern just casually having a good time. Later in the evening my roomate aproached a group of three girls and started chatting (he talks to EVERYONE). I walked over and joined while he introduced me to these girls. One girl in particular was instantly drawn to me. We talked random stuff, laughed, had fun and eventually she said I was jsut way too perfect and that I cannot be single. I told her I was single and she seemed shocked. She said she was as well. Yada Yada Yada we talked and at some point she said I had a beautiful smile and told her friend that she thought I was gorgeous (her words). Her friend then told me what she said while she was in the bathroom. To make a long story short, before the night was over I got her number and we parted ways. She did make me promise that I would text her because she really wanted to see me again.
I felt really good about this girl. She seemed amazingly perfect (especially for a girl I met in a tavern). I did text her the next day and we talked for a bit but she was really short with her answers. I sent some text asking a question that she never answered. Next day she said sorry for not replying but she was doing something. I said it was fine yada yada and asked if she wanted to do something. No answer. Next day I tried to spark up a convo but no reply. Its been 3 days since I have heard from her at all. Maybe you girls need more details and I would be happy to give them but I already typed a whole lot. This same scenario seems to happen over and over again for me. Sometimes we talk for a a few days but never leads to an actual date of any sort.