What if you are still a virgin? (male)
but you are in your early 20's?
just because of circumstances (moving around a lot, health problem) you never "got round" to having sex.
obviously you don't go screaming that fact from the rooftops, but it has got to the point now where i am scared to get close to anyone, because i feel like it's some terrible secret that i will be exposed as a virgin.
it becomes a vicious circle, and is hindering my lovelife to no end.
I just feel like hiring a prostitute and getting it out of the way, but i don't really want to do that.
how would a female see this situation, say i get close to a woman, should i tell them straight up?