I know what I did was wrong but he knew what he was doing- I didn't force him into sleeping with me infact he initiated it and he didn't have any condoms or ask me if I had any. I'm on the pill but it took for us to be at it for afew mins before he actually stopped to consider that and ask me whether or not I'm on the pill so he acted irresponsibly too. It was after we had slept together afew times that he asked me if I had been checked for any STI's recently. I saw him last night and he kept going on about the virus I've given him and how he wants me to tell the guy I slept with and give him **** over it. I asked him if he's going to hate me if I have given him something and he said yes, then he said only for half an hour or so and then he should be OK. I kept bringing it up and he said the more I talked about it the more annoyed he was likely to get so he asked me to stop. He is basically itching alot down there and he feels feverish. I have got absolutely no symptoms of having anything.
Judge me all you like but I would prefer some constructive criticism. If we remain a couple then at least we will have both been checked and treated for anything we might have. If we don't remain a couple I am most definately not having sex, or oral sex, from anyone until they can prove to me that since they last slept with someone they have been checked and are clear. I am not going to put myself in this position again. We all make mistakes but as long as we learn from them then something positive can come out of it.