Hello everyone, my name is Jack, I'm eighteen years old and I've just finished my second week at Uni.
I'm really enjoying the course I'm on and the people in my class are fantastic. I've had one girlfriend before (long distance but we met up after 6months. We broke up soon after because it wasn't fair on either of us) but overall I am very inexperience on the topic of girls. I've always been shy around girls, I'm that sort of bloke. I think a girl in my class,Jess, fancies me and I fancy her back. A different girl who is attractive asked me out to the pub to swap notes and help her with work. This girl is called Claire and she is lovely but I'm not into her.
I like Jess and I think she likes me back but I'm not 100% sure. She was delighted when I asked for her Facebook and she has my number but when I talk to her she goes all quiet. I don't know if she is shy or just tolerating me. I can't read girl's minds! I don't know if going to the pub with Claire ( I've never been to a pub before) is a date or not. I don't want Jess to get the wrong impression and think I'm a player but I don't want to upset Claire either. If Jess doesn't like me and I upset Claire or if I upset Jess and Claire really does want to ask for help on writing, I'll be alone. I don't want to be alone.
The last thing I want to do is upset anybody! I've never had many friends before so I don't want to be seen as the bad guy. What should I do?