Should I get out while I am still young enough to meet someone else?
I met my husband 4 years ago, we've been married for almost 3 years. We had kind of a shotgun wedding bc we found out I was pregnant. I'm 31 and he's 38. I agreed to marry him if he tried to further his career so that we could have weekends off together and have a better quality of life. He was a bartender and moved up to management. Since then he has had 6 jobs. I know the hospitality industry has high turnover, but we are never able to get ahead bc we have to keep filing unemployment.
Before and during our marriage there have been odd texts hes received from women and a few he accidentally sent me but meant to go to someone else, one saying "we can play tarzan and jane", another, "fuzzy pink handcuffs and crotchless panties". He swore these were between him and his buddy joking about something. Last summer I found several emails to women he knows on linkedin, one saying how he's so miserable being married to me and a few others with ;) . I freaked everytime these things popped up, but I keep staying for our 2 year old. My husband is a great father and I feel like my son needs him. But I want more kids and the clock is ticking, so I am afraid between the job issues and the trust issues that I am wasting my time. Any advice? He denies ever cheating but I feel like there were so many weird instances, and now I wonder if he'll ever find a stable job.