wtf; is wrong w/ me

When my g/f and I are doing all the foreplay stuff, i get aroused; i guess. However as soon as were about to have sex, and i whip out the condom, the bastard goes limp, and it takes all i can do to make it a chub... a f**kn chub!! gah. Anyway so you can go ahead and have sex w/ a chub, but its about 1/2 the size as normal, so you dont feel exactly prideful.

Then, when that horror is over, it takes me about 1 minute or less to eject. *sigh* Im 19, i dont think i should be having this problem yet.

Try having your girlfriend put your condom on for you, using either her hands or her mouth. As for going too quick, well,,, that will hopefully improve with experience.

Practice, practice, practice. You're just a bundle of anxiety, aren't you? I think if you have sex every day, it won't be such a big deal.

Also- are you consuming any substances that could be affecting your performance? Are you and the gf always in a hurry, or don't have much privacy?

How about a hotel room with the gf for a night, dedicated to nakedness?

hmm..maybe you wait too long to have sex, maybe the lil guy just gets tired of getting aroused, you are too young to be having a problem like that, well if you don't think your waiting too long before having sex, and if you don't take drugs, as in medication or otherwise, then you shoudl go see a doc!