What is the best way to offer sex?
Guys:
I posted this in the main forum but thought this might be helpful, too. Briefly, I am involved in a friendship with a man. We are not interested in dating right now, although we really like each other and there is physical attraction (he's said as much). He is reluctant to do anything/ make any moves, I suspect because he is worried about emotional baggage that may result - both of us just ended long term relationships, and also, I'm moving away soon.
Is it possible for me to express to him somehow that I'd LOVE to get physical, but would not let it get messy emotionally? Basically I want a nice way to say: 'Look, if you're willing to jump in bed with me, no strings attached, I'd love to do it. So let me know.' I'm 100% serious, FYI. I don't want to mess up our friendship, which is why I haven't offered point blank, but I have the suspicion he wants to do it, too, and is just afraid it would get too involved and messy. How can I let him know that I'm not looking for a mess, just for a good time?