Not sure if I let the opportunity pass.
No offense, but at first I thought if I used forums such as these it would be stooping to a whole new level, but the advice I was getting from my friends was not that great either but now I see a fair few people use them.
Basically I liked this girl from my induction at college way back in September and we had qued together for like two hours. I didn't make any conversation then and haven't even till this day. I wondered if she would enroll after the induction because I really wanted to get with her, ironically she did. There was lunchtimes when I thought she was looking at me and I just ignored it, I guess those were perfect opportunities to move to her. Then surprisingly she got transferred to my class and was sitting directly opposite me always had loads of eye contact. And she's attempted to start conversation with on two occasions but I can't of seized up and didn't attempt to extend the conversation anymore than was necessary this was in about October.
Then as everyone began to start knowing each other a little more, her and her friends began to chill with the second years. They are obviously quite a bit bigger than first years so I always thought ah ****, she even stopped coming to alot of classes. So I just thought maybe I pro-longed it, though I was a bit shy I just thought this girl is really fit and seems like a cool person. But the embarrassment of me flopping and especially her being in my class would just be completely a shame. So I just thought time to move on, she's hanging around with second year people now.
But I didn't move on! I still like her and want to get to know her, I don't know when i'll have the opportunity now as she is always with second years in free periods and the other opportunity I suppose would be in class.
But now that I pro-longed the situation she doesn't come to all the classes neither do we look at each other as much I wonder if the opportunity has just passed me by, perhaps she has lost interest.
Though I hope this isn't the case but I haven't a clue what to do, I'm a pretty average guy + but I'm kind of shy around girls and ****ed up several opportunities with other girls. I've just assumed all this time I might say something stupid, the conversation might become awkward/dead.
I'm not sure what to do now.. I really want to have a go :S