Falling for someone, you shouldn't be falling for....
Hi, Im 26 and i've been single now for 2 years. my last relationship lasted 5 years it ended really badly with my girlfriend cheating on me with one of my friends. It destroyed my life, I have pretty much been down and out until the start of this year where I finally started to pick my self up again.
At present i feel on top of the world, for the first time in a long long time I feel good again really good. A girl who started off as just someone I work with has become one of my best friends, what she doesn't know is i've had feelings for her for a few months, what makes it worse is she has a boyfriend, I'm not a home wrecker, I'm not going to try and steal this girl away from him. I know how that feels and I'd never do that to someone. So I have tried to pull myself away from her a bit now but I find she seems to want to hang around with me more now than ever.
So how do i deal with this?
Don't Tell Her and just carry on as we are?
Tell Her? then lose Her most probley altogether.
I think I have to tell her. I'm falling in love her and she cant even see it. Either way here I know this is going to end badly for me. Looking at us two together people think were the couple or our mates think we fancy each other so something needs to be said I just have no idea how to say it??? PLEASE HELP ME :(