Why would this guy act like he likes me and say he misses me but then say THIS......
I am seeing a guy and I have been away for over 1 month now so we haven't seen each other for a while but he texts me a lot telling me he misses me and wishes to spend the day with me and stuff like that. I also showed him feelings back like I tell him I miss him also and I told him he makes me happy and he says he cant wait to see me. He also sometimes calls me babe and baby.
But then on Valentine's day he texted me and was saying he missed me and wanted to see me but he never mentioned anything about Valentine's day. And also on my b-day he said that when i get back we could do something for my bday and I said "yes it would be cool but you don't have to it's not like you're my bf" (I said this because I was curious what he would say) and he said "Yes I know but you know. That's what friends do" and then I replied back "Ya :) well not if i don't have a bf by then" (again I said this because I was curious if he is really serious about me or not) and all the he replied was "ok"
I am so confused right now. He basically just proved to me that he doesn't care If I see another guy but then why would he tell me he misses me and call me baby and say he is so excited to see me and everything?
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I am seeing a guy and I have been away for over 1 month now so we haven't seen each other for a while but he texts me a lot telling me he misses me and wishes to spend the day with me and stuff like that. I also showed him feelings back like I tell him I miss him also and I told him he makes me happy and he says he cant wait to see me. He also sometimes calls me babe and baby.
But then on Valentine's day he texted me and was saying he missed me and wanted to see me but he never mentioned anything about Valentine's day. And also on my b-day he said that when i get back we could do something for my bday and I said "yes it would be cool but you don't have to it's not like you're my bf" (I said this because I was curious what he would say) and he said "Yes I know but you know. That's what friends do" and then I replied back "Ya :) well not if i don't have a bf by then" (again I said this because I was curious if he is really serious about me or not) and all the he replied was "ok"
I am so confused right now. He basically just proved to me that he doesn't care If I see another guy but then why would he tell me he misses me and call me baby and say he is so excited to see me and everything?
Update to this post: after he said "ok" I was thinking that he was going to think I just said that to make him jealous which would only make everything worse so I said "oh I guess you didn't get it it was an inside joke" and he said "Haha -_- you got me" Which I think he kind of means like he's happy that I was just messing with him. So does this kind of change the situation or what do you think?