7 partners in more like 2.5 years. Do you think that is too much? She lives in a small town close to my own and as a result I know a lot of the guys she kissed etc before.
Here is our full history...when we were texting we had planned to meet up on a Saturday night. I couldn't make it but she got drunk and slept with a guy I worked with, but drunk to remember fully what happened. She stayed texting me that night and said nothing about it.
My employer ended up telling me that my work colleague had slept with her.
Anyway I stayed texting her and said to myself that worst case scenario I would get a ride out of it. It took her a month to put out with me and during that time I actually got to like her.
A number of things happened though, firstly I brought her out to a bbq to meet my friends and it turned out she had kissed two guys there before, went on a date with one and met the other on a night out. Another Sunday we were having dinner in a pub/restaurant when this guy walked in and she nearly choked on her drink, it turns out she had slept with him twice 2 months before she started meeting me. Anyway this got me a little worried so I asked her straight out what and who she had been with before, date, kissed whatever. As I particularly wanted to know what fellas I know that she had been with. So she told me but did not tell me the truth. I later found out in the pub that there were two other guys that I knew very well that she had kissed also on nights out. If she had just told me from the start but the lies did annoy me. After we had slept together at the start of our relationship she went away on a girls night out, we were not going steady at that time but I was not meeting or texting anyone else. After the night outIng asked her how it was and did she see any fellas nicer than me just teasing etc. She of course said no. A month or so later it came up on her facebook that she was friends with this guy from the town where she went on the girls night out, they had no mutual friends. I asked her about it and she flipped out denied it and started accusing me of stuff. Long story short it turns out she did kiss him on that night out. None of the things she did were on their own massively wrong but it was the accumulation of lies that annoys me. We have been going out 4 years but if I had known about kissing the other guy earlier in our relationship I would not have stayed with her.
Hence why this boob story is bugging me.
Am I the boob here :-)