I'm confused on what to believe

Ok, so about 2 weeks ago, my gf broke up with me and she said it was because she didn't really want to have a bf right now, and that we should've slowed down, which she asked me to, and I tried, but I guess I did something wrong?
(btw we had been dating for 5 months, August) And now I asked her out again and if we could try this again and she said yes. And when I ask her what we can do to avoid this again she says she wants to talk when we're actually near eachother, and when I ask why we broke up, and what changed, she says idk, I guess I just changed my mind.

What the hell am I going to do now...?

play it cool.......................????/

What do you want to do?

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Originally Posted by TAVS

What do you want to do?

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No, I'm just confused on what I should do, as in, stay with her, try to figure out what the hell went wrong (or why the hell she doesn't know what happened) and should I try to stay together with her again?

And... how exactly are WE going to tell YOU what YOU want to do.....?

First think about what you want to do. Then think about what could result from each of those things. Choose a reasonable result you would be content with and go from there.

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Originally Posted by Tone

And... how exactly are WE going to tell YOU what YOU want to do.....?

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No, no, u miss my point, I'm asking y'all what you think I should do about this.
Does she really want me?

We can't tell you that, silly!

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Originally Posted by clynn

We can't tell you that, silly!

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you're missing the point is what should I do, should I just go with it and see how things turn out, or what?

If you want to , then you should? Will it work out? Who knows?

You probably have more control in this situation than you realize.

5 Months is too early to be calling someone your girlfriend anyhow. You shouldnt even have a girlfriend until you are about 28 or older.