boyfriend jealous of best friend/ ex
so my relationship is on the rocks right now basically because my boyfriend is jealous of my relationship with my best friend, who also happens to be my ex.
the ex and i started dating four years ago, and broke up one year ago. we're still really close friends, best friends. and now my boyfriend, of three months, is mad because he feels that i spend too much time with my best friend. we work at the same place, but we only have one shift a week together, he drives me to and from the metro when i need to go to school, and i'll hang out with him once or twice a week. is that really too much?
also, i can't exactly spend a lot of time with my boyfriend as he is stationed at BAFB in DC and i live about an hour away from that, plus it's DC so there is a lot of traffic. so it takes him a good chunk of time. and by the time he gets here it's 6-6:30 and he has to leave by 9:30-10 cause he'll have work in the AM.
how am i supposed to solve this without hurting either party?