Situation with my BF'S GF??

I'd be lying if I said I dont feel guilty. But on the other hand I still do it. We have been having sex behind his back for about 4 months every other day. She tells me everything about them. How sex with him is awful. Which I knew already because he asked me what he should do about it. I gave him good advice. I guess it didn't change anything. The sex with her is amazing. I think it's how taboo it is. We're all over each other. She wants a relationship with me and there's no way in hell that's going to happen. She thinks that I'm in love with her and that we will be together. She talks about us running far away together. All I have to do is say the word. I'm a big believer in "once a cheater, always a cheater". But she seems to be in love with me. My gut is telling me shes in love with me. My gut is never wrong. I guess I'm doing both of them wrong. I know he uses reddit so I'm not going to give all the details. I also want to add that I still respect the guy a whole lot. I would hate to lose his friendship Only a handful of people know.. I know I should stop but the sex is just so addicting.??

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Originally Posted by Throwaway97 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I'd be lying if I said I dont feel guilty. But on the other hand I still do it. We have been having sex behind his back for about 4 months every other day. She tells me everything about them. How sex with him is awful. Which I knew already because he asked me what he should do about it. I gave him good advice. I guess it didn't change anything. The sex with her is amazing. I think it's how taboo it is. We're all over each other. She wants a relationship with me and there's no way in hell that's going to happen. She thinks that I'm in love with her and that we will be together. She talks about us running far away together. All I have to do is say the word. I'm a big believer in "once a cheater, always a cheater". But she seems to be in love with me. My gut is telling me shes in love with me. My gut is never wrong. I guess I'm doing both of them wrong. I know he uses reddit so I'm not going to give all the details. I also want to add that I still respect the guy a whole lot. I would hate to lose his friendship Only a handful of people know.. I know I should stop but the sex is just so addicting.??

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This all stems from a lack self discipline, which is a moral deficiency.

That's really all there is to this situation.

As far as your respect of this guy, the way you treat him puts your statement to the lie. No one who respects another person would plant such a knife between his shoulder blades like this.

She doesn't love you, this all about the passion and sneaking around and not getting caught once you try to make this a real thing she will get bored of you like she has your friend and find a ****buddy to use behind your back too... Like they say you lose them by how you get them..

What do you mean " the way I treat him"???

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Originally Posted by Minikimini [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

This all stems from a lack self discipline, which is a moral deficiency.

That's really all there is to this situation.

As far as your respect of this guy, the way you treat him puts your statement to the lie. No one who respects another person would plant such a knife between his shoulder blades like this.

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What do you mean " the way I treat him"???

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Originally Posted by dollhouse [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

... Like they say you lose them by how you get them..

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This. I call that karma.

I don’t see the problem
You are obviously lying to your friend and enjoying sex
Since that means you aren’t friends anyways anymore and you obviously don’t mind, you could just keep doing what you are doing?