My Girl friend not taking to her ( is it my fault?)
Guys,
Need advice.
My girl ( I will call her M)was school teacher of her friendīs son(I will call her the mother). Another girl(B.) was her assistance.
In the past, while my girl was married, they(she and her past husband) used to go for all barbecues with that mother and her husband.
After we start going out( after her divorce of course), we went to their barbecues but her old assistance B. disappeared ( found a boyfriend or whatever- she was just on a different moment of her life). Thatīs ok so far.
Lst Sunday, the mother started a facebook group ( without M) for a new barbecue and that was what happened:
-Sunday
Mother: Did we forget anyone?
People: We forget B.
Mother: So I will add her to the group.
-Monday night ( after she included one of my girl friends)
Mother; I think we are done with the arrangements. Did we forget anything?
My girl friend: We forget M.
Mother then add my girl to the group.
Even B. has disappeared for some time and my girl keep talking to the mother on a weekly basis, the mother did forget to add my girl, and it seemed that the mother just added my girl because someone else brought it up.
Now, my girl is really upset and I can stop thinking that I am the responsible for it (maybe the motherīs husband did not like me, I dont know, I just cannot stop thinking about it.)
During the last barbecue, the guys(me included) started talking about cheating on her wives with hookers. i got totally uncomfortable with this and everyone noticed. Maybe I am the responsible for the mother not inviting my girl sooner to the barbecue (maybe the motherīs husband did not like me, I dont know, I just cannot stop thinking about it.)
Help. How do I solve this.