I love a girl who is in a relationship
About 2 years ago, in college, I met a girl. Normally when I meet a girl I like, I have a little crush. With her, however, I don’t feel the same as when I have a crush, it is so much stronger. I got to talk to her, we have similar music interest, hobbies and even political point of views are the same. I love everything about her.
As I was about to ask her out, I found out she is already in a relationship. I tried to let it go but for these past 2 years there has not been a single day that I can’t think about her. She is still in the same relationship, and currently we’re friends. I really want to find out if she might feel a little bit the same about me and if there is ever a chance of having a serious relationship with her.
I tried to find out what she might think, but I’m just lost. I want to tell her how I feel but I don’t want to spook her and lose her as friend. Now that both of us are out of college (graduated together) for about a year now it’s even hard as I don’t see her on a daily bases anymore.
Any help is welcome, tips on how to start to tell her I love her, tips on how to find out if she likes me as well. I’ll try anything.