Should I keep on texting her?

hey so I have been dating this girl for like 2 months. She told me she wanted to take it slow and that she not ready for relationship. I thought she just wanted to be friends but the not really the case. We still hook up and see each other alot. So I would usually text her like 2 times a day. I was told that im texting her too much, so I didn't text her all day. She later txt me at night. We met at and went to the bar. She asked me why i didnt txt her and i said i was busy. I than asked her why she didn't txt me all day and she said she was mad because i didn't. So my question is should i txt her less or just keep on what i normally do?

Less, she's playing games. You should play too.

She's playing games. She sounds immature. I mean, what else can I say? You can't change her. She will probably continue to play various games with you, and expect you to read her mind, and make all the advances.

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Less, she's playing games. You should play too.

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Why would you want to play games? Just drop it.

thanks for the advise, im going to text less and stuff.

She is the type that will twist things around on you and cause all kinds of drama....needless to say you will be spending a lot of time in the future fighting over stupid s hit. I guess she weighs your affection by the amount of texts she receives. That is being very insecure on her part.

If she is the old fashioned type, she expects you to make the moves. Or maybe, she is used to men pursuing her and does not know how to pursue a man without looking desperate. Some girls are like that... I wouldn't call it game playing. Maybe she needs a little reassurance. If you suddenly stop texting her she will notice and think something is wrong. Obviously she wants you to text her... She was upset that you didn't, right. That probably triggered some worry or feelings of insecurity. That's not a good feeling. Do not make her feel that way. If you like her, please by all means SHOW IT!

ok thanks for the info.

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I was told that im texting her too much, so I didn't text her all day

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WHO told you? Her or somebody else was trying to tell you how to ''play the game'' ?

o in the last post i said it was my sister.

OK, sorry, I did not see that.

So, you were consistent with your texting and then changed your behaviour on the basis of what your sister told you? I am not saying she was right by not initiating texts before, but it's not her who changed her actions and started playing. It's you.
Maybe she is insecure and she thought lack of texts was you backing away or starting to cool off.
Again, both of you should relax and take things slow. One day of no texting is not a reason for panick if everything else is ok.
BTW, any reason why your sister is against you dating this girl?

yeah she was saying how i should not be txting her so much