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He all of a sudden started talking all serious.
What do you mean? Can you be specific as to what serious discussion you talked about?
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He'd hardly pick up my calls or reply back to my txts. When I confronted him about this, he told me things are not the same anymore and that he doesnt know if everythings going to work out between us.
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He calls me sometimes and tells me that he still loves me and thats about it. Everytime i start to talk about us he just finds something new to talk about.
Some men often have second thoughts and they could never directly tell you he is about to dump you.
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he said he still loves me and cares for me. It sure doesnt seem that way.
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Now all he does is lie like no tomorrow and avoids me every way possible.
Neither tells you that you’re not his type for fear of confrontation. Men really try to avoid upsetting women. They fear rejection and prefer to take the easy way out.
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We didnt officially brake up. He has me on hold while hes trying to fingure things out.
Jen124, even if you didn't officially break off. He wants you to make that decision for him cause he can't say that for himself. He'll feel like a jerk if he tells you that he's so not into you. You can't force him to love you even when that love he has for you is gone. Don't feel so bad about it.
When he treats you like he is about to dump you, one feels dehumanized and demoralized.
It can make one wonder if there is something you did that turned him off. Theirs absolutely nothing wrong with you. The truth is that you've just both grown into different directions in life. Nobody wants to be jilted. This only becomes a problem when we take it to heart.
It’s not uncommon for women to make up excuses about why guys appear to loose interest. It’s a natural defense mechanism which prevents us from being plagued by negative emotions. It is easier to make excuses then try to second–guess men then to actually admit he is not into you.
It doesn’t even matter when they don’t call, disappear, or ignore you. The truth is, he is about to dump you. We know it but we refuse to see it. We keep holding on to a relationship where there is none. So, stop wasting your time with him when you know he is about to dump you.
Once you acknowledge and accept that he is not that into you set yourself free and find who is meant for you.
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Its very clear to me now that it is not going to work out. I just dont know how im going to move on....
Not to worry, you'll get through that.
