Originally Posted by bluesummer
Let me tell you something....I was in a relationship with my ex for five years. The last year of our relationship (which was pretty good), I realized that I had started to have feelings for other people. Wondering what it would be like to date other people. Wondering what it would like to be SINGLE. I went to my bf with this and fortunately he was feeling the same. It shocked a lot of people; hell,, it shocked ME. It just happens, even in good relationships where you are convinced you have found the perfect person. It's pretty normal and the best thing to do is just accept it and move on. DO NOT CHASE AFTER HER. She obviously has some things she wants to sort out on her own, or things she wants to experience. Let her have that. If you leave her alone, and the relationship is as important to her as it is to you, she will return in time. If not, move on. Sounds harsh, but it is the ONLY way to do it, trust me.