repeating trends in my relationships - insight?
I've noticed lately that a few of my dating experiences have taken the same exact path:
The beginning: we meet and hit it off. guy is absolutely nuts about me, he makes all the first moves and when I accept continues to reiterate how strongly he feels throughout, say, the first month. I'm a little overwhelmed but also flattered and since I like him a lot too I don't hold back any feelings that might come to me. Things progress pretty fast.
The middle: We get to know each other more, and since I have every reason to believe he's in this for real, I let my feelings grow. Everything is awesome. He doesn't act as intensely enamored as before but still happy, and I just assume he's getting more comfortable with me.
The end: After a few months, he totally out of the blue calls and tells me I'm not what he's looking for and that it's over for him. I'm crushed because I was just starting to feel strongly and to my knowledge everything was going great. There is virtually no decline. Things go from perfect to non-existent in one conversation and then we never speak again.
I've tried to look at what I could have done to cause this but I really don't get it. Could this be a problem with me that I just don't realize? Or could it be that I tend to attract a certain type of guy that's passionate but ultimately confused and flaky?