Feel torn, bf's female friend problem. Help!
Ok so my bf of 3+ yrs have recently started being friends again with this girl Jen he has known since high school. They had a falling out a year ago because she could not accept me as his gf and acted inappropriately (too flirtatious with him, not wanting me with them when they hang out, etc). They had an argument over the internet about it and that's how their year long fall out happened.
Recently my bf told me he txt and talked to her on the phone because he didn't want to be stubborn anymore about waiting for Jen to call him and apologize and he wanted to see if their friendship is really over. I got so upset that he contacted her again and wld still even consider being her friend after her bad attitude with me and my relationship with him. He told me that when he talked to Jen a few days ago she told him that she realized what she did was wrong.
I told him that honestly at this point I don't even want to have anything to do with her, even if she was sorry about the way she had been in the past. I told him that if he really wants to be friends with her again then he should but I can't be with him. I don't want him to chose but I just can't imagine or wanting to go through what I had to go through when she was in the picture. Even if she was sorry I just don't have it in me to forgive and forget. What should I do? Pls help!