Personally, I'd give him what he wants and I'd quit "bothering" him about anything relating to the marriage and feelings for the two months he's requested. I'd also reiterate to him that our vows are still very much in place and that this "space" doesn't include him being with other women. Then, I'd find a sport or a hobby that would help me find friends that I could do fun things with as well. I think you'd fair well with some interests other than your husband and babies.
I don't know what your guy's issue is, but just from the two posts two things came to mind.
1. He's having an affair. Or..
2. You need to have interests other than just him because he's feeling smothered.
No matter what his problem is, he should not be verbally abusing you nor should he be trying to run away by going to the bar and not having to answer to you. He is a husband and a father not some single dude without strings.
Good luck, look after yourself.