I wasn't sure which forum this would be better suited for, so I'm posting it here.
Over the last few months, my gf and I have been testing fate so to speak. She's on birth control and so we've been having sex without a condom and I haven't been pulling out. She doesn't want me to and I can't have as strong of an orgasm if I do.
The last couple months she keeps thinking she's not going to get her period.. and then she does... and then the pattern restarts when we start having sex again.
We're both still in school... though I graduate from my program in eight months. We both want to have a baby, but we aren't actively trying (though I'm not pulling out, she isn't quitting birth control). We've talked about it and we say that we probably should wait, but then neither she nor I wants me to pull out.
The ultimate was last week. She had to change birth control because her body was getting used to it and we were talking about that for the next couple cycles, we need to start having me pull out, but while we were having sex she told me she didn't want me to. We were basically risking it.
Today, once again, she is doing the whole "I might be pregnant" thing. It's nothing negative or anything. She just wonders since I haven't pulled out in like... 4 months... and she was switching pills (she does take her pill every day.. I know this). And today she told me that for the last few days she's been daydreaming about having a baby.
To be honest, I'm kind of excited about the idea of having a baby with her even though I'd rather wait for two or three years. She's excited as well. I like kids and I am kinda excited about being able to raise a child. I know the costs and time restraints. I know that my social life will be non existant for a long while. I don't mind that.
I don't know what the point of this thread was, to be honest. I just wanted to share that she might be pregnant and we're both excited about the idea... lol
I invite all of the "I surely hope not. You're not father material!" responses.