Why do people want what they can't have?
I'm curious. This phenomenon fascinates me.
I was in serious lust with this guy for months. I pursued him as much as I could while trying not to seem too desperate. Of course he was able to smell my desperation and he strung me along on a merry chase with no real intentions of being real with me. We haven't talked since March. I was very proud of myself that I was able to break it off cold turkey.
My bf and I recently started telling people that we are together and it took this guy a hot second to start calling, texting, and im'ing me. What is the appeal of chasing after someone who doesn't want you anymore?