I have an erectile dysfunction with women that I am not sure what to do about.
Basically I haven't been able to get it up with women a lot so the doctor prescribed Cialis to me, which has helped a lot. However, when I am with a new girl, and one that I like and am into, I cannot tell if she is going to want to have sex that night or not. I mean you can't just ask a woman, cause that kind of puts them on the spot, and most women you have to go into foreplay, and wait and see what happens. If it doesn't happen, great, that's fine, there's no rush. However, I have to take the pill, at least one hour in advance in order for it to work, and I don't even know if sex is going to happen. So I will keep assuming that it will go all the way, just in case it does.
But if doesn't, it adds up to a lot of money down the drain cause it's 25 dollars a pill where I live. Not that I'm saying the woman is money down the drain, certainly not. But with the pills themselves it is, cause it adds up overtime. Plus a lot of women get turned off that a guy needs an hour or more of foreplay to get an erection, if sex is going to happen, since I need to wait for the pill take effect. But I don't want to take the pill long before any foreplay happens, cause then I am less likely to know if sex is going to happen at all, at that point.
Another thing is, is that the medication also causes sleep deprivation as a side effect, so I don't want to take it unless I am sure, cause then I will have insomnia that night, when sex didn't even happen anyway it turns out.
What do you think? Is there a better way I can predict if sex is going to happen or not?