Unable to have intercoarse
Okay.. I'm really going to lay out some personal stuff here.
Back in 2008, I had colon cancer and due to the operation, I was left with a lot of scar tissue that makes it extremely painful for me to have intercourse. My husband is ten years younger than I am and has a very strong libido.
Also, I suffer from depression and the meds I take lower my own sexual libido. One night I went snooping in his mail (yes, shame on me) and found he had been on an adult site looking for a FWB.
He will make me feel guilty and even say he will look elsewhere when I reject his advances. I know sex is important in a relationship but, is it more important than love and respect? Does he have the right to look elsewhere because I cannot provide for him?