I started talking to this guy I met on a dating site, his 42 and I'm 26.
We exchanged a lot of emails,after a while texted and then he called. He told me his 42,we talked for hours.As his photos looked O.K the age gap didn't bother me too much, as he told me up front that his profile hadn't been updated and we want all the same things and really seemed to click.
So I was really excited about meeting him but was scared because it seemed like he could be "the one" (cheessy I know) but I was scared there was too much hype and excitement in my head.
Just before meeting I asked him to send me another photo,which he did and i was really disappointed he didn't look like the guy in the other photos, he said the photos on his profile where only a year old!!! but I think he felt something was wrong as he texted that he doesn't photograph well,I didn't say anything as I'm not that mean.
Anyway the next day we met and he looks older than his photos and age to me he looks 46 maybe his still the same amazing guy we talked for hours his really smitten recently said he loves me and see me in his future and before I was feeling that magic too so I don't think his crazy but I feel like a cow now I really love spending time with this guy but is this going to be an issue or will it go away in time. We haven't slept together yet but talk alot about the future, is it o.k to keep dating him whilst I figure this out, because don't want to dump him and then later think, oh my god I love him but on the other hand I don't want to waste his time or break his heart.
I never had a problem dating guys that where not super models or attractive to others but I think it's because he looks old! and I look really young most think I'm 19 or 20.
I'm going nuts help!