hello all, im reaching out and coming here because the best advice you can get is from a complete stranger. So heres the low down
Me and my GF have been on and off for 9 years, we have had our break ups and did out own thing for a few months and have done this a few times. We currently have a kid now (2.5 YO) and have not broken up or cheated in years. But the other day i found out she has been cheating, whats more is we had a fight and i moved out for one day but she asked that i move back and we give it a few weeks to try and make it work, but one week into this she started hooking up with a guy behind my back but i diddnt find out till two weeks later, this whole time thinking we were trying to make this work. It hurts like hell and her reason behind it was i wasnt giving her enough attention and making her feel loved enough. Now i really do love this girl we have been through hell and back and have a wonderful family when we make things work. Im not going to lie ive screwed up (not cheating) but i go out with friends and dont come home once in awhile and yes i know i could give her more attention. But im stuck at a crossroad right now, should i give her another chance or should i just take the pain and move on. It just makes it so much harder cause we have a kid together and i dont want to leave her and mess up our family........im sorry now im dragging on, please give me some honest advice.........