i am a 57 year old man who has a 56 year old female 1st cousin. for the last 35 years ive fantisized about having sex with her, ive even fantisized about her while masturbating. over the years weve talked about sex, shes shown me her double D breasts discretely, felt on her when we were younger. a few months ago she was coming for a few days visit, she called before she arrived before she hung up she told me that what happened at my place stayed at my place. at night before going to bed she will sit around in her robe showing me her legs, moving them together as if she knows that its turning me on. which it does. i want to confront her about my feelings without ruining our relationship if she isnt having the same feelings that i am. does anyone have any suggestions?