Help me, I'm dying inside!
After 2 and a half years of marriage, my husband says he wants to be free and try other women. He is going out with a girl
where he works at but after leaving my home he keeps on inviting me out to eat and chat but he hurts with his words me over and ove. The last
time he said , Did you think I was going to ask you back?, no way"
I'm 43 and he is 26. When I got married I thought he was my dream come true (he behaved very mature for his age) but it my dream has turned into
a horrible nightmare. Everyone says I look like 30 years old and that I'm beautiful. I work and I consider myself a loving and caring person.
I don't know what happened because he didn't give me clues of not lovig me until a couple months before telling me in a cold turkey way
that he didn't want to be with me any longer, that he was acting kind of distant.
I thought I was going to get over this but it is turning to be a situation that is destroying me. I don't want to work any more, I want to disappear
and living has become a torment for me. Is there anything you can tell me to help me come out of this torment?
Help me, I'm dying inside!
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Kick him out of your life! Don't fall for those calls! Like you said you are good looking and I bet you can find a date in a week! No one needs immature guy! Time to move on. I always say to my friends after breakups go out, have fun, change your hairstyle, do something crazy you never did before, talk to people, meet new people. If you want a lazy day go online chatting. My friend is now hooked on one local site sanantonio.partyline.com she's been on many dates since her boyfriend left her, that really leveled up her confidence. Just occupy yourself with anything and you'll see that life has just begun. Take care and good luck! :)
Thank you so much for your response and advice. I can't take a break and escape from my thoughts and my feelings since I'm trapped in my job. I need all the tips everyone can give until one hit the spot in my heart, mind and soul and make me free. I am refuging myself in God but I don't know what's wrong with me.
My mom said I created an attachment with the person I thought he was but that is just a character I created in my longing to have the prince charming in my life.
It may be truth but I don't know how to let go.
My mom says I'm not suffering so much for him since I can see he is not what I thought he was, but that I'm suffering cause I see this as a defeat in my life. Cause I am the one who has been rejected and what is worse he is rejecting me for other woman who is younger.
I want to leave my job, I want to go to other state where my sister lives, I think I'm losing my mind. Why I can't I get over this? Am I too weak? I thought I was
a strong willed person. :-(
This is so embarrasing.