when u guys give compliments do you really mean it..like if you say im hot and pretty do you really mean it or you just say it because you wanna have sex...
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when u guys give compliments do you really mean it..like if you say im hot and pretty do you really mean it or you just say it because you wanna have sex...
Yes, and you're an asshole for not taking his compliments seriously. There are other ways you can ask for attention.</ASS_U_ME>
I think you can tell when a compliment is genuine.
If it's a compliment that's out of the blue, it's most likely genuine.
If wanted sex I would seduce the girl. But 90% of the time when I give a compliment I meant it. I may not phrase it in the best way, but I won't give one unless I did most of the time. The other 10% is when I have to give one becuase of an image thing than anything else, ie I got nothing good to say to the person for some reason, but I have to give them a compliment anyway.
I have experienced the "compliments to get in the pants" thing. It happens.
I have done both. Depends on the girl, depends on the situation. And its not only to get sex, sometimes it is to get on her good graces, or change topic, etc.
I do remember telling girls they looked really really sexy while I sat beside them at the cinema or wherever. Simply because I thought they looked really really sexy. Plus it made them feel good about themselves and generally made them happy which in turn meant they wanted me to fu*k their brains out later on that night.
So its not abnormal for a guy to compliment a girl and in my case, yes I did mean it
Thata reminds me the time I told this girl that work in a store at a shopping center that I worked at, that the top she had on made her look hot. She had this love hate thing to me (why I have no freaking clue), but after I said that to her she wore that top a lot more. I highly doubt she wanted to **** my brains out, but it work never the less.Quote:
Originally Posted by derm [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But derm how the heck does telling a girl your sitting next to that they look sexy makes them want to **** your brains out? Unless your at a porn theater I don't see how it could happen, but then again I seem to not get into such situations like that.
If in doubt about the sincerity of a compliment, don't have sex with him.
derms says:
"I do remember telling girls they looked really really sexy while I sat beside them at the cinema or wherever. Simply because I thought they looked really really sexy. Plus it made them feel good about themselves and generally made them happy which in turn meant they wanted me to fu*k their brains out later on that night."
I can understand why you have 0 reputation.
I was starting to think it was just me. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by NeoSeminole [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
you should always accept compliments. not everything is based around sex in a real relationship, so if you have that doubt come across your mind your relationship obviously has insecurities
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Originally Posted by jurupa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sorry just to clarify.
When I said girls, what I meant was girlfriends. My girlfriend at the time. Not complete strangers...lol...Gees I'm not that good
lol, I was wondering there for a second.Quote:
Originally Posted by derm [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]