Hi guys... could you please tell how you act when you are really interested in pursuing a relationship with female for a long term relationship, as opposed just wanting casual sex?
What do you usually do to woo her... in the early stages of your relationship?
I can only speak for myself but if I just want sex I'm upfront with that and if I'm in it for the long haul I like to gradually escalate the intimacy over at least a month. Rushing things in that department usally kills my intrest so.
So if he sticks around for more than a month you can be sure he is not just wanting sex.
Shame all men were not as honest.Quote:
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But I guess they wouldn't get the sex, if they were to be truthful, because most women don't like to be used as sex toys.
Perhaps it depends on our ages? I'm an old git of 47 and if I really love somebody I would buy her flowers even if I can't afford it. I would also cook for her - I love to cook and for me it's a real pleasure to cook for somebody I love. But more importantly I just want to spend time with her. I want to hug her when she's having a difficult time. I want her to know that I'm there for her.
Yup, same here. If I cook for you, it's long-term interest. If I cook ratatatouille or lasagna for you, it's love.