Do all men occasionally cheat
My bf of 9 years says he will never be happy having one sexual partner. He says all men eventually cheat, that they are visual creatures and need too. After 9 years I'm still fun, and in shape, and we have great sex together. He says that it motivates him to workout more ,and be more successful and appreciate me more, if he can **** around a little. The things an the way he says the things he says about men and sex, seems as though he really believes this himself. Do I need to be a little more open to his needs, or is he totally full of it saying that all men cheat..... Should I finally let go, like run for the hills, or is he being truthful to what most women don't want to hear? After 9 years this all really hard, and confusing to take in, I'm worried that I've been mentally controlled.